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相爱容易相处难,相处容易相信难,相信容易相谅难。相信是最难的,但是包容对方又会更难。夫妻之道忠恕而已,忠于自己,忠于对方,宽恕对方,宽恕错误。
干干净净的离了,再干干净净的找。干净的爱情,每个人都有资格拥有,无论你的过去是什么样子。我想说:我们所要面对的事情,是现在和将来。过去,仅是历史,何必纠结。

涂磊:失恋是因为有人瞎了眼

  有个姑娘小北,这个姑娘年纪已经不小了,三十岁左右,天蝎座。
  小北是个不折不扣的女强人,自己开了一个小工作室,还在两个大公司里面简直,在自己的领域里,她是非常出色,可以独当一面的人物。而在旁人们的眼中,小北简直太强大了,没有她办不成的事情,也没有她搞不定的项目,几乎所有的男人和女人在小北面前都是弟弟妹妹,完全被她的气场给压服。
  毫无疑问,这样的姑娘,是很难嫁出去的。
  从前我就讲过。有能力有事业有气场的男人喜欢小鸟依人的姑娘,而没能力没事业没气场的男人害怕强势的姑娘,所以越是装柔弱的姑娘就越有市场,而强大的姑娘只能苦逼的一个人继续扮演强大。
  很多人觉得,强大的姑娘是不需要恋爱的,其实错了,她们更希望获得呵护和温暖,因为她们在外面的世界里遭受了太多了冰冷,更想要有心理的安慰。
  小北也是如此,所以她恋爱了,年过三十后的恋爱并没有那么容易,必然有些条件在慢慢放弃。
  她首先接受了姐弟恋,但做为外貌控还是找了个帅哥,不过既是帅哥,又能接受女方年纪大,那么在其他方面自然会弱一些,这个男人没什么正经工作,整天嚷嚷着做生意,但几乎没有收入来源,换句话说,他就是靠小北养着。
  旁人都看的清清楚楚,私底下也会笑那个男人吃软饭是小白脸,但小北却一直不承认。她始终觉得,这个男人很有才,只是没有遇到机会一样。
  几乎每一个养着男人的女孩,都会用李安当年失业时也被老婆养了六年来做例子,可惜她们并不知道,有的男人是蛰伏,有的男人却是被包养。李安虽然失业,却已经拍过许多不被市场接受的骗子,也从来没有中断过学习和研究。而有些男人在被女孩养的过程里,整天只知吃喝玩乐,说是谈生意,其实不过狐朋狗友到处串门,这就是被包养。
  可是小北完全无所谓,她一直在说,只要这个男人对自己好,那都可以,她什么都能接受,什么都可以忍受。
  这个男人要钱,小北就给他钱。男人要做生意,就给本钱,给介绍业务,给联系好,甚至整个单子都是小北做的。这个男人要认识人,就不断的介绍圈内同行给他。
  按理说,小北做了这么多,这个男人就该对她更好吧。事实恰巧相反,大概三年内,这个男人两度出轨,被小北抓住后,又原谅了他。
  三年后,男人正式向小北提出分手,原来他在小北的客户里找到了个更有钱更有权势的富婆,坚决的要离开小北,去和富婆双宿双飞。
  小北失恋后整个人都崩溃了,自杀过好几次,在朋友面前又哭又笑又闹,连工作都辞了,自己的公司也因无人管理而倒闭,总而言之,为了这个男人,小北把自个的生活都弄的一塌糊涂。
  这件事情,如果是旁人来看,会觉得好奇怪。
  如果是一个高富帅,那么失恋了或许还能够崩溃一下。现在这个男人明明各种不好,明明只是个吃软饭的小白脸,为什么还要这样崩溃呢?
  别人想不通的事情,等轮到自己身上,就完全成了一件通不通都会发生的事情了。
  因为失恋的本质是你失去了一个心爱的人,一个当成亲人的人,是丧失了生命的一部分,和这个人本身好不好并没有关系。
  你的亲人就算十恶不赦,可失去他时一样会难过,道理是一样的。
  所以首先第一个要明白的事情是:失恋永远是你自己瞎了眼。
  全世界只有你一个看不清自己甩掉的是个什么东西,也只有你把他当宝贝,只有你以为这是什么情深意重的真爱,在别人眼里,这玩意儿狗屁不值。
  而第二个要明白的事情是:失恋永远是对方瞎了眼。
  为什么这样说呢?当你失恋的时候,你总是会自我怀疑,觉得是不是自己哪里做的不够好,是不是自己出了什么问题,是不是还有可以改进的地方能够留住对方。
  但这一切都是徒劳的。
  因为一个人离开你的时候,他在看你时已经瞎了眼。就算你身上有再多的优点,就算你是全世界最好的女人,也没有任何用处。
  他此时已经被别人的优点吸引,已经被更多更新鲜的东西吸引了注意力。五色令人目盲,这种盲,并不是真的瞎了,而是他已经不关注你,不在乎你了。


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Town Steamboat Restaurant
Address: 63, macalister Road, 10400 Penang
Business Hrs: 5.30pm - 11.30pm(call for reservation after 5pm)
Tel: 04-2297273


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Detail place:-
T-Bowl Restaurant
Location : Inside Queens Bay Mall, Next to GSC CinemaGPS
Coordinate : N5 20.061 E100 18.389 Address : 3F-43, Queensbay Mall, Penang
Contact No : None
Business Hour : Daily 11am to 10.00pm
Off Day :
Price: Reasonable
Credit Card : No
Air Conditioned : YES
Halal : No
WIFI : No
Smoking and non smoking zone : No
Tax : 5% Gov and 10% Service

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Food:-


Tomyam Seafood Udon

Mocha Blended & Soursop Blended

Special Happy Meal

Tomyam Chicken Fried Pot wif Rice

Black Pepper Chicken Fried Udon

Mocha Blended

Chicken Fried Spaghetti

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Video:-


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